Thought-fulness for the day...

Have you ever wondered how someone could get it so wrong? I had a call this evening and the conversation when something like this.. " Obviously, I'm not ringing to find out how you are..!".. you would assume from those few choice words that the person in question has no interest in my well being. General politeness would usually mean that two people who used to know each other would at least ask after the other, having not spoken for a considerable length of time. Perhaps it's nerves, perhaps just a complete lack of any connection, perhaps it's just stubbornness that creates the big divide. Perhaps it was a clumsy attempt at humour, I really don't know. Thoughfulness doesn't cost a thing, DOH!